Campout's and Campfire's

A couple weekends ago we had a family reunion on my moms side and went camping together. We were all so excited to get out of the desert and smell that mountain air! It was a weekend of first experiences...first time camping without Dave...first time camping with the kids...first time setting up a tent on my own (thank goodness for my brother the boy scout)...................

..........and first time having one of my kids fall into a fire pit with hot ashes and end up like this. I can't even explain how horrible that moment was. Watching your child go through so much agony and pain and being able to do nothing. It completely tares you apart in every which way. Ashlynn was playing with all the kids and she tripped and fell backwards right into the fire pit. Luckily there was no fire burning but there were still extremely hot coals/ashes from the night before. She put her hand in to break her fall and sat right in it. As soon as I heard her screaming I knew something was wrong. Running over to her and seeing the back of her body with ashes all over it and her hand, my heart sank. My family was amazing and all rallied around me trying to help and figure out what to do. I could barely do anything but sit there and hold her and cry with her. I just felt helpless. My uncles got together and gave her a blessing and I was so grateful for that. Not having Dave there was really hard and to have them step in and bless her was amazing. We quickly decided after that to get her and I home. I wasn't able to drive so one of my uncles decided to drive me home while Ashlynn sat sideways on my lap. She couldn't sit flat back because of the burns on her back. There was no way that I could have driven her home on my own. Thanks to my Uncle Stanley he got us home safe and sound and quick and I'm so appreciative of him for doing that. Luckily Ashlynn fell right asleep as soon as we started driving. We got home and my dad and Dave came home soon after. We decided to take her to urgent care to make sure she would be okay. They said she had 2ND degree burns...wrapped her up really good...gave me medicine and told me how to take care of her for the next week. We brought her home and she went right to sleep.

These next pics are from today...10 days later at the burn center in phoenix. When I took her back to urgent care for her follow up appt. they looked at her hand and said that some of her 2ND degree burns had turned to 3rd degree and that I needed to go see a specialist right away. I learned that it takes up to 72 hours for a burn to fully manifest. I had no idea, I just kept taking care of her thinking that they were supposed to look like that. Basically what we learned is to not mess around with burns and go straight to the burn center. So here she is being so amazing and such a trooper! Everyone there was so sweet to her and just fell in love with her. They had to soak her burns and remove all of the dead skin...she was so brave through the whole thing. It was kind of hard to watch. They wrapped her up again and sent us home with a suitcase full of supplies and medicine and instructions...you name it they gave it to us. I have to take her back next week to have them wash her again, remove anymore dead skin and see how her skin is growing back. They said she should heal just fine and should have no scarring.

She wasn't so happy to get this new outfit! That was the only time I thought she was going to cry. We tried to tell her that she had Cinderella gloves now and a back to the 80's top but that didn't fly very well. Once they were done the nurse took us to this "special room" that they had just for kids. They opened the door and it was FULL of any kind of present you could imagine! She went right for the lady bug tea set and couldn't wait to get home! She really has been amazing and we are so grateful that she is going to be alright! We love you princess!